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The Art of Deserving

Do you feel stuck and unable to achieve what you really want? Are you often feeling that “life would be better if…?” Maybe it’s possible that you don’t feel that you deserve the things that you say you want. That feeling of unworthiness, more than anything else, is keeping you trapped. That unworthiness is creating […]

Get Mad – Get Even

Have you bitten your tongue today? Let me a little more specific: where today have you felt something, whether it be anger, joy, sadness, grief, and not expressed it? We all do it. There’s this belief that permeates our business and personal lives that says we should take those emotions, mostly the “negative” ones, and […]

STOP TRYING TO BE WHO YOU AREN’T

One of the many things I’ve learned from my mentor Dr John Demartini is to embrace who I am and, more specifically, to know what that means. Who I am is an expression of my values. To know more about who I am, I need to know what those values are. On today’s very special […]

THE GOLDEN SCAFFOLDING AWARD

There’s a little kernel of truth hidden in every conversation. I relish my morning mastermind sessions because it gives me the chance to look beyond the surface of what’s being said and get into the real issues. For example, Geordie said he didn’t like the word “sharing”. And with a little coaching from me, we […]

Entitlement is Destroying Your Business

You are not entitled to success. Your hard work before doesn’t mean you can relax now. Your funnels don’t mean you stop trying to sell. Too many business owners (and before you accuse me of being preachy, I have definitely been guilty of this) are stuck where they are at their current level of success […]

Meaning = Productivity

If you don’t know yourself, you don’t know your business. If you are an entrepreneur, your business is an extension of yourself. It’s the vehicle through which you can achieve something meaningful in the world. If your long-term vision for your business is clouded, if your plans never seem to come true (or if they […]

Why You Can’t Stick to a New Year’s Resolution

Human behavior is a funny thing. I know that because I’ve studied it extensively. On today’s very special episode of the video blog, Warren asked me to talk about the mindset of changing your behaviors. It takes a lot of work, but you can get there. Or maybe you can’t, because you don’t truly believe […]

You Can Do It, But You’re Not

Your mindset is the biggest risk to your business. This applies to far more than just positive thinking. While optimism has its place, we also need to be aware of our blind spots – what is our brain hiding from us that we don’t even know about? My good friend and client David Mehler helps […]

The Purpose of Life

People make a pretty big deal of out the whole “meaning of life” thing. To me it’s abundantly obvious. The purpose of life is to grow. The purpose of life is to start out unrefined and move as much as we can towards refinement. How do you grow? That’s easy, too. By taking on and […]